my online community
Dec. 3rd, 2004 01:33 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
fleaI'm still amazed by how involved I am in my invisible friends. I do sometimes dream of people at b.org, and when I read, my immediate reactions sometimes are in terms of people I've never met. For example, I was reading the new Gourmet, and there was an article by Perri Klass about teaching her son to cook before a 2-week campout with his 9th grade class so he'd have something valuable to contribute. With some added thoughts about maturity, tools for being an adult, etc. And all I could think of was jonquil's son - and I've never met jonquil, let alone her son. But there you are.
I think, for me, my online community replaces books, to some extent. I often felt as a child that the characters in books I enjoyed were my friends, or at least my friendly acquaintances. I was sometimes more interested in them than in actual people whom I knew. This is still the case, except with online people. And I often don't want to know them (you) any better than I do - I like our friendliness to be a bit distant and polite; I have no desire to IM and email you all. Perhaps I have intimacy issues, you say? Well, there is that.
I think, for me, my online community replaces books, to some extent. I often felt as a child that the characters in books I enjoyed were my friends, or at least my friendly acquaintances. I was sometimes more interested in them than in actual people whom I knew. This is still the case, except with online people. And I often don't want to know them (you) any better than I do - I like our friendliness to be a bit distant and polite; I have no desire to IM and email you all. Perhaps I have intimacy issues, you say? Well, there is that.
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Date: 2004-12-03 08:39 pm (UTC)But yeah, I know what you mean. For me it's really been great, making moving several times and living in the boondocks much easier. I never have to feel like I lose this particular group of friends.
At one point I wanted to pursue closer (non-board) communications & friendships and such, but I concluded that I'm just not very good at that sort of thing. Suppose I just prefer this sort of venue.