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Dillo has, perhaps a little belatedly, hit the 18 month old cling and whine phase. He cries a lot when I leave for work; this afternoon I could hear him halfway across the Kroger when I took off after some rice cakes. (Incidentally, it is our week to provide snack (fruit/veg plus carb/protein) for 20 kids daily at Casper's (public) school. It's kind of expensive to provide fig newtons, rice cakes, apples and such for 20 kids.) The last two nights, if he'd had his druthers, he would have spent the entire night with my breast in his mouth. As it was he was up every 2 hours (which did lead to the amusing "Up mama dada!" comment he made at 5:30 am. We wrangled him back down.)

We're having incredible wind now, but before it got bad we spent a couple hours yesterday afternoon and this morning outside, enjoying what is basically spring weather. It will freeze tonight, but we've got blooming daffodils in the early spots. I have started my ineffectual shrub-pruning. Maybe this year I will buy a ladder; my mother sent me $100 for no reason this week...

Casper has been full of good energy with all this outside-ness; in inside news, we borrowed a disc of Looney Tunes, all Bugs Bunny, from the library and she thinks it is very silly. In not very pleasant news, she pooped in her underpants Wednesday, Thursday, and Friday after school, while with Beth the after-school care person, playing outside. And Saturday morning started the day by peeing in an upholstered chair for no apparent reason, probably ruining it. I think we're going to take her in to see Dr. Betty; although I suppose it's possible there's some physiological reason for all of this, I kind of doubt it. In any case Dr. Betty may be helpful. I would attribute some of it to Beth giving notice, but it's been building up for a while. (For after school care, it's looking like the Y, which seems good and is a good deal financially, though the transportation is an issue.)

And they fight a lot. Squabbling right now. She pushed and yells, he whaps. We separate them. Repeat. I'm tired after this weekend, but I so wanted to stay up to watch the Jennifer Ehle Pride & Prejudice...
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Did I post about how I tried to take Dillo on the merry-go-round in the mall and he was so scared he was trembling in fear but too scared to actually cry until I took him off of the evil moving horsie?

Yesterday friends came over and L., aged 20 months, was a pretty normal (if assertive) toddler with the grabbing toys and the "mine" and the hugs so enthusiastic they knocked Dillo over. He was having none of it; every time she approached he fell to the floor, put his head on his hands, and wept copiously. I told the mom she shouldn't worry, he was just a sensitive new age man.

Today we went on an adventure to see my office. I toted Dillo in the backpack on the bus, and when we got to campus I tried to set him down, thinking he and Casper could run around and chase each other a bit. He wanted to be in my arms. Into the building, same deal. RFMom was on the desk and chatted nicely with Casper. He wouldn't leave my arms and buried his face in my shoulder when she spoke to him.

Poor little sensitive dude.

We've had a good weekend; mostly working well with the kids, not too bored or annoyed with myself. mr. flea is growing a "dissertation beard" and applying for a job in Aarhus (Denmark), where happily the weather seems more like Seattle and less like Minnesota. Casper wore only a skirt to bed last night because she was playing Tarzan, so we made her a "gorilla nest" of blankets in her bed and read her The Elephant's Child. Dillo helped mr. flea make a minor repair to our dresser and was so cute wielding the rubber mallet. Today we frosted cookies - Casper wanted to make Power Ranger cookies - and Dillo insisted on removing allf rosting from his cookie and putting it on his nose.

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