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Today at about 1:30 there was a shooting in my city that resulted in a police officer killed and another injured, apparently seriously.  This took place about 3 miles from where I live.  One suspect fled in a car; the make and model and license number are known.  This is a tragedy, clearly, and there is a dangerous armed man somewhere on the loose.

But, was it really necessary to put all schools in the city on "soft lockdown" for the rest of the day, and cancel evening PTO meetings, and for 4  parents to contact me wanting to know if the Girl Scout meeting was cancelled, and for the leader who planned the meeting to call me and say we had to cancel? Do we really think this armed guy is going to be driving down a busy center-of-town street some 5-6 hours after the crime, some 3 miles away, looking for little girls to shoot?

Signed, being more rational than other people is sometimes so annoying.

ARGH THE STUPID IT BURNS:
From Twitter:
Dumb question, but how far is Athens from Atlanta? Like, should I be worried the alleged cop killer is going to drive by at any moment?
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mr. flea, being an employee of the Federal Government, is getting a free seasonal flu shot at work at some point. Apparently they just show up and jab everyone. (He is also now prohibited from texting while driving a government vehicle!) Go team Socialism!

I used to get a flu shot at work - they'd do several clinics on campus, usually one in the library, and you just had to line up, bring ID, and there you were. Often the line was long unless you timed it well, but since it was generally made up of coworkers, fairly jolly. And by "long," I mean half an hour. Go team University Hospital!

The kids got shots at regular fall doctor's appointments, or the Saturday flu shot clinic at their doctor, which took appointments at 15 minute intervals.

Our options now? I can get a shot at the Uggaversity Clinic (paying $25), or at various local clinics (i.e. the one in Target last Saturday that I missed) (paying $25), or at my doctor when my doctor gets the seasonal flu vaccine (originally told us Oct. 1, now saying they don't have it yet and check back Thursday.)

Casper can get a flu shot at our family doctor, too, when they get some. And they told mr. flea on the phone today that they wouldn't charge for an appointment, we could just bring her by any time (really? I'll believe it when I see it). But Dillo can't, as they aren't getting the vaccine for kids under 4. So far I have called or looked at a variety possible places to get him a flu shot (I'd be willing to pay): County health clinic? Flu shots only for Medicaid patients. Uggaversity? Staff only (and students, etc. - unclear if they have any kid vaccine anyway). Clinics at Target, Public, CVS? Vaccine only available for children over 10, or people over 18. Other clinic finders helpfully suggested by our insurance company? None in our area (I live in a city of 100,000 people, not the boondocks!)

We're planning to switch the kids to a pediatrician next year; unfortunately there are very few pediatricians who accept our current insurance, open enrollment for both our health plans isn't until November, and won't take effect until January. I guess I should be glad that Dillo is the kid who is never sick, and I should be able to get the one who's had pneumonia and gets a hacking chest cold every fall vaccinated, I hope?
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There's a tendency for discussions about working vs. stay at home parents to divvy up the time spent on various activities. (For example, here: http://parenting.blogs.nytimes.com/2009/07/08/parents-who-dont-waste-enough-time/). Then someone asks, "What do stay at home parents DO all day? (Since studies show that SAHP only spend an hour a day playing with their kids.)" And someone replies, "Laundry, dishes, errands, take the kids to the doctor, clean the house, take the kids to soccer practice..."

Here are the things nobody ever says in response to those:

Working parents do dishes and laundry and take the kids to the doctor and all that shit, too! They just cram it into their evenings and weekends, and take mornings off for the doctor part. Um, duh? Yeah, some people outsource housecleaning, and some go out to eat a lot, but most working families (like, say, mine) don't choose to or don't really make enough money to do either of those things, and precious few people outsource the daily breakfast dishes or taking the kid to the doctor. Yes, the house stays cleaner when there aren't people in it for 8-10 hours a day. But the laundry still needs to be done.

The real thing SAHPs do is TAKE CARE OF KIDS. This isn't "playing" in studies, but it is very time-consuming, as any parent knows. Non-play stuff I don't do while my kid is at daycare: make and feed and clean up from morning snack, lunch, and afternoon snack; change diapers/watch potty-trainer like a hawk and plop him on the potty every hour and read a book for 15 minutes while we try to pee; wrangle kid down for a nap (with 2 year olds, this can be an hour-long process if you even get a nap at all, as they want to drop the nap but still *need* it); do activities to keep the kid from running amok and then clean up from those activities. I don't do much housework or errands on days I'm home with kids, except when the TV is on. (And yes, ONE kid can help with housework; I have not figured out how to let two help at the same time without it all dissolving into chaos.)
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The logical reaction to being told one needs a crown is to go home and eat potato chips and ice cream, right?

The dentist spackled my broken tooth, but said I should have it crowned (I can probably get away with a partial) and said I should first of all get a mouth guard made, because I have hairline cracks in my teeth and I am probably grinding. And I still have to get my wisdom teeth pulled and get the multiple cavities on the other side of my mouth dealt with.

And of course the insurance company refused the re-billing for the first fillings as amalgam, so we owe them $900 for the work that's been done. I asked their financial person to double-check whether a crown and the pullings will be covered before I have those done. The mouth guard will not be covered ($205). For the rest of the fillings, if they're in unobtrusive places I'll get amalgam (covered) and if not, porcelain (not covered).

Insert standard rant about dental coverage and medical coverage being separate (note that having two children cost me less, including all prenatal care and delivery, than having these fillings); insert standard rant about preventive care (which could have prevented some of this).

At least I still have good gums. Because gum stuff is *nasty*.

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