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I got All Your Worth from the library today; it's the money planning book by Elizabeth Warren and her daughter. Warren is the pretty darn awesome lawyer currently advocating for consumer protection legislation; her daughter is a financial consultant. The pair wrote the book The Two-Income Trap as well.

They argue that 50% of your income should go to Must Haves, 30% to Wants, and 20% to savings. To calculate the factors the way they do:

Income:
Gross income
Minus taxes
Plus employer contributions to your retirement

Must Haves:
Rent/mortgage
Insurance (life, health, car)
Car payment
Child care
Utilities
Food
Student loans
Anything you have a contractual obligation to pay for over the long term
Not credit card debt; the credit card piece gets complicated, but since we have no credit card debt I didn't pay that much attention to it.

Wants:
Clothes
Eating Out
Stuff You Buy
Gym memberships
Basically anything that if, you lost your job and cut back to the bone, you'd eliminate.

Savings:
Includes employer contribution to retirement.

So I totted up our percentages on Must Haves and Savings, which are the ones with easy-to-come-by numbers. With Dillo still in day care (until August) and counting our new car payment, our Must Haves are at 66%. Oops. Once Dillo starts school, we'll be down to 58%, which is still not that great, but is out of the Danger Zone. On the plus side, our Savings run at 19%, which is about on target. (Also on the plus side, we have an extensive cash reserve, that runs to about 6 months of Must Haves, and we have no consumer debt, but.) But no wonder it feels like we are still having to be cheap all the time - our Wants are what's getting squeezed in our budget.

Right now there's not too much we can cut from the Must Haves. We need to look at the life insurance we have through work, and maybe choose a cheaper health insurance plan when open enrollment rolls around. I think mr. flea may need to adjust his federal tax withholding. And it would be great if I were able to get a job as a librarian, and mr. flea got hired as a permanent employee. In the meantime, we'll be cheap.

In general, I think this is a good book. It says all the sensible things all good financial planning books do (don't buy a house with no money down, don't buy stuff you can't afford, credit cards are of the devil) and that we have always done. I didn't learn a lot, but if you need a good basic financial management book (in paperback, cheap), you might look at this one.
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The kids are now both old enough that I can leave them with Grandma with almost no qualms about how things will go. (I do expect the possibility of tiffs between my hard-headed daughter and my hard-headed mother, and generally get them.)

Grandma and husband are off to Asheville, leaving me in great hopes that mr. flea arrives at the Athens airport as scheduled at 4:40pm, because I don't have a backup plan to collect Dillo from school if mr. flea ends up kicking his heels in Denver or someplace. Taxi, or my neighbors (who would be happy to help and there are enough of them that one should be home), I guess, would be the answer.

Had parent breakfast at Casper's school today. Thomas' mother informs me that Thomas told her that Casper plans to marry him. This is news to me, but he's actually a great kid, so if she still feels this way in 20 years and can convince him, I'd be okay with it. He's going to be tall enough, too (his parents are as tall as we are). Lots of parents showed up, including many of the ones you always suspect won't, and I got to spend some nice time talking to kids who were parentless as well as loving on my kid. I told Jeremiah he had a beautiful name and he was so shyly pleased. There are a bunch of seriously beautiful children in Casper's class.

Dillo had a charming habit of hating it when I push up my sleeves. He always pulls them down for me. He is doing GREAT on the potty lately, and I feel like we are finally finished with diapers in my house!

Tomorrow is mr. flea's birthday and I am planless. It's been a very distracted week, all out of routine and dealing with Mother. I am also planless for Thanksgiving and Christmas (though I have preliminary gifts bought for my mother and siblings at least.) This weekend needs to see some serious planning happen.

(Oh! Grandma got the kids flu-misted yesterday at the county. They got 2 of the last 3 available doses of mist, but the county did have some shots. They say they need another dose in a month, but we'll see how the WHO/CDC work this advice out in the next month, and also, will they actually have any in a month?)
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mr. flea and I had lunch together outside in the 75 degree sun and tried to make some decisions. Then dropped by home to pick up the forgotten cell and saw adorable children not yet running amok on their grandmother.

Plans made (I think):

Memorial Day weekend in New England. May 21-25. Brother's wedding 5/23 (our anniversary is 5/24); need to plan some other activities. Discuss staying with mother but also maybe B&B it. Probably too short a trip to leg it up to Machias ME. Annoyingly, last week plane tix were $160 and this week they are $300.

Easter weekend in Ohio (April 10-13)? mr. flea is tasked with this. Plane tix to Cleveland are $180 today. Not sure what city we'll be in though.

June 27-July 4 in MA (Woods Hole). Plane tix can wait; today they are $207.

This means summer for Casper would look like:

Last day of school May 20 - to MA
May 26-29 YMCA (short week)
June 1-5 Camp Invention on campus? (With S & A; short days, but we could work it out)
June 8-12 YMCA
June 15-19 YMCA
June 22-26 YMCA
July 6-10 YMCA
July 13-17 YMCA
July 20-24 YMCA
July 27-31 YMCA
August 3-5 - need something
August 6 - first day of school.

YMCA Camp open house is 4/11; regular registration starts 4/13.
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In theory, at least; I haven't talked to her yet.

On the agenda between now (well, 4:30 today) and her departure on Sunday am:
Garden shopping
-cow manure
-deadly poison to kill poison ivy very very dead
-new gardening gloves for ditto and general avoidance of future poison ivy
-possibly some shade annuals for back veggie bed as it's really too shady to grow veg once the trees leaf out

Garden work
-kill kill kill poison ivy
-mulch main veg bed
-pick peas; if they are done, pull them out and plant canteloupes
-plant sunflowers
-turn manure into back garden bed and plant annuals, if bought
-general trimming of things

Baby prep
-find missing boxes (it's not just the monkey Robees; I realized I have no burp cloths, and I know I have approximately 400,000 burp cloths
-discuss what girl clothes to keep, what to give away to friends, what to consign/sell

Thrift/consignment shop
-bags of stuff to goodwill/baby consignment shop
-look for double stroller
-look for fun things to buy cheap

Quilting
-discuss design of armadillo's quilt
-possible trip to fabric store

Fun
-have some

Criticism of parenting and specifically potty training and bed and mealtime discipline
-head off to extent possible

I'm really happy she's here; we play together well. (I have tomorrow off and we're sending Casper to school anyway so we can play; bad mommy!) But forewarned is forearmed.

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