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So, here is the very short birth story:

Monday was a normal day at work, and an evening La Leche League meeting. You may recall my oh-so-presceint post about how Braxton-Hicks contractions mean nothing about when labor will start. I had a little show about 7:30 but thought it might have stemmed from other causes. Starting having more unusual B-H contractions at around 10 - still didn't feel like actual labor contractions, but bordering on painful. They were irregular - 10 minutes, 20 minutes, an hour apart. At this point I started thinking, "ah, prelabor, which in non-first children can last several days." Went to bed, woken up by a B-H contraction at 1 and talked with mr. flea for almost an hour. Back to sleep. Woken again at 3, and two weirdo B-H contractions later my water broke at 3:20. So I finished packing, and mr. flea called the doctor and Tonya to come over to stay with Casper, and I sat around on the toilet sweating and starting to have real contractions. Tonya came around 4, and we drove off to the hospital under the full moon. Whoops, front door is closed at 4:20 am. Back to car, around back to ER, where they swept us in with great efficiency (yay pre-registration!) and up to L&D. Hooked me up to fetal monitor and I threw up a little (the first and only time - woo hoo) and they're doing the basics of paperwork and so forth. I was having pretty decent contractions but still able to walk and talk and so forth. Overall I was much more aware of what was going on and present this time around. Obviously much less tired and dehydrated. When they first checked I was 8-9 cm and I very quickly was in transition, with shaky legs and urges to push. So we pushed, and I screamed like a banshee (in between screams saying "god this is easier than last time!") and we decided to do another episiotomy, and then at the next contraction we got the boy out. I got to hold him right away and I believe this is a direct quote: "Hello, little one! You are so gross!" The room cracked up. (He was, in my defense, purple and vernixy and bloody - and I said "gross" in a loving tone, I swear!) Seemed very big (he seems so much smaller now). Cried a lot, right off the bat and then when they weighed him and wiped him off (and later, when they gave him a bath he howled and I rolled my eyes some more.) So easy, and I have felt fine from the get-go - only pain is from uterine cramps when I nurse, now nearly gone, and I've had a lot less lochia than last time.

Incidentally, my friends Sunshine (Satsuki) and David had their daughter Sumi Rose just an hour before the Dillo was born. Birthday twins! Sumi's big sister is Lucy (who is herself a birthday twin with Avery Kate, another friend.)

Coming soon: more pictures (download cord is in room with sleeping grandma) and the continuing saga of the evil billirubin, in which much stress worry and hassle but no actual negative consequences for baby, so far.
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A relatively quiet night, after we got Casper to bed at ELEVEN PEE EM OMGWTF. Working out how to manage the night shift, have enough light to see to get Dillo nursing without turning on the lights, that stuff. Finally a little cooler.

In the AM, Casper off to school for Splash Day (swimsuits and mister on the playground), and we emailed pictures to Miss Katrina to show her classmates. Stephanie from her old class is moving up this week, and she gave mr. flea a hug when she saw him. We had a quiet day and got caught up a bit with friends and family.

Then to the doctor at 3 and as I expected, the exact same routine we went through with Casper: jaundice with fairly high billirubin levels but not high enough to treat, but they recommend supplementing with formula, plus a relatively big weight loss already. (The numbers: born 8/10, 8/6 at 24 hours, 7/14 at 60 hours; billirubin 7.9 at 24 hours, 13 at 60 hours, they treat at 16.) We're to supplement with formula tonight and see them again tomorrow. Happily this time we didn't come home and have great spasms of weepiness and parental failure, as we did with Casper. This time it's "I guess my babies lose more weight than average and tend to jaundice, but Casper was fine and it was not as big a deal as we felt it was at the time."

I'm not sure we actually will give him formula; we gave Casper a couple of ounces, but this routine occurred on day 5 for her and she hadn't been pooping (and my milk still wasn't really in). My milk is starting to come in as of this morning and I think Dillo is definitely getting more now; we'll watch for wet diapers overnight and if there's no noticeable change we'll consider formula, or maybe even just water, in the morning. Formula didn't agree with Casper - made her very very annoyed and gassy - we had a horrible night the night we gave her some.

We may bathe the boy-o tonight; his hair is rather greasy. He looks different now, mr. flea says "much cuter," though ivory-eyeballed and given to the wizened old man stinkeye.

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