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I think the nanny is unaware that she's doing it - she doesn't even realize that people might be uncomfortable with these minor religious mentions. Note that 2 of the 5 families who have at any time been involved in the nanny-share are Jewish! Eli's parents were a little uncomfortable with the Christmas carols playing, and asked that the nanny restrict them to secular carols. She was kind of surprised, and was worried about whether she should get him a Christmas present. She's well meaning and completely doesn't get it.