birthdays

[flea]

My coworker is fretting that she is not being "crafty enough" in preparing for her son's upcoming first birthday. This weekend Casper is invited to our neighbor's birthday party, which will include a bouncy house and a spider-man theme (birthday girl is a serious tomboy), and next weekend she is invited to a Princess birthday party ("wear your own princess dress and we'll provide the crown and wand".)

It got me thinking, why don't the adults who are expending so much energy and creativity on their children's birthday parties throw some adult parties occasionally? What wouldn't I give to have an excuse to dress as a princess, eat cake, and come home with a goody bag?

(Possibly these parties exist and I am just not invited to them. Possibly *I* need to throw such a party.)

Side etiquette note: the princess birthday party is held jointly for two girls. Casper knows one and has been on playdates with her, but I don't think she knows the other at all well (goes to the same school, but not in her class or in afterschool). Do we have to bring presents for both? (Yes, I know you never HAVE to bring presents.)

Amusing Casper note:
me: Tells Casper she has been invited to Hannah's birthday party.
Casper: She's turning SIX?
me: No, she's turning five.
Casper: Oh, she is four now? No wonder she is so greedy!

Comments

[tskaredoff.livejournal.com]

Possibly *I* need to throw such a party

Kind of a genius idea.

Do we have to bring presents for both?

I think so. It would be very sad for one of the girls to have a bigger pile of gifts than the other.

Casper is funny.

[rivka.livejournal.com]

I believe that etiquette for joint parties is that you bring a gift for the child you know, and maybe a token tiny something (bubbles? sidewalk chalk?) for the child you don't know.

[forodwaith.livejournal.com]

If my birthday weren't at the wrong time of year I would totally rent a bouncy hut for it!