The problem is, my parts of the week alone are too much! We have a very egalitarian home life. I do more of the organizing and cleaning, but mr. flea does more of the "watching the children so I can get something done for crying out loud." We alternate cooking, and trade off dishes/kidwashing, that sort of thing.
The other big problem is I feel like I have so little family time that I can't go out by myself, or hire a sitter so we can have a date. It feels wrong to spend an evening out when we are only home with the kids 4 awake hours a day plus weekends. Even though we really need some time as a couple.
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Date: 2008-09-22 06:54 pm (UTC)The other big problem is I feel like I have so little family time that I can't go out by myself, or hire a sitter so we can have a date. It feels wrong to spend an evening out when we are only home with the kids 4 awake hours a day plus weekends. Even though we really need some time as a couple.