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flea ([personal profile] flea) wrote2006-04-24 11:41 am

pregnancy news; baby names

28 weeks tomorrow; Had the glucola appointment this morning (i.e. the "I drank the Kool-Aid test" - where you drink a nasty sugary drink, they wait an hour and take your blood, and see if you have gestational diabetes.) BP 100/62, weight 160 (so BACK OFF mother), fundus measurement normal, baby heartbeat normal. Now we go to every two week visits.

mr. flea begins to be worried we are not doing enough to prepare this time around; I told him to go re-read the book from our childbirth class. He wants to hire a doula again, which except for the expense seems like a good idea to me, as it was very valuable to have someone there with us last time (even though the someone there doing most of the support was my mother and not the doula). The doula is really to spell mr. flea, but I think the L&D nurses would have been more involved and supportive last time if we hadn't had my mother and a doula. We need to talk about it in more detail.

A woman at work I don't know well had her daughter, Charlotte, by C-section at 37 weeks on Friday; they did a section because they were worried the baby wasn't getting enough nutrition through the umbilical cord, and indeed at 37 weeks she weighed 4 pounds 11 oz which I think is on the small side even for 3 weeks early. I think the baby may be in the NICU still but seems okay and just needs to gain some weight and figure out how to suck.

We discussed baby names in the car on the way to the appointment, and mr. flea's gut instinct of the moment was David, and mine was Eddie. Either would do, though there are a ton of other things in contention (Theodore, Charles, Marcus/Mark, Anton/Anthony, Idris Elba...)

[identity profile] jonquil.livejournal.com 2006-04-24 04:12 pm (UTC)(link)
God, I hate glucola. Made me want to barf, both times.
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[identity profile] gchick.livejournal.com 2006-04-24 04:13 pm (UTC)(link)
Early reports are that wee Charlotte is indeed wee, but otherwise healthy and properly developed; she's on a feeding tube to get her caught up a bit until the sucking thing kicks in, but they're hoping she'll be able to go home when her mum does in a day or two -- so, nothing as drastic as the rather sudden "they're taking her early!" messages might have meant.

I vote Marcus, fwiw.

[identity profile] casperflea.livejournal.com 2006-04-24 04:49 pm (UTC)(link)
My source was your boss, who took a measured tone, so I wasn't too worried.

[identity profile] ste-noni.livejournal.com 2006-04-24 04:41 pm (UTC)(link)
My friend's son is named Charles, called Charlie, and I like that a lot. I can't wait to see you next week.

I know you don't need input, but I loved my doula so much. I can't imagine what it would have been like without her. Honestly, I think we would have a doula for the next baby simply because I can't imagine Joe doing what she did.

[identity profile] casperflea.livejournal.com 2006-04-24 04:51 pm (UTC)(link)
FYI, I am planning to return the wintry of the clothes you lent - unless it will throw a spanner into your packing! I though I'd give you back both tupperwares and then just send the remaining summery clothes to your new home in a box. Let me know if that would be a problem, though.

[identity profile] ste-noni.livejournal.com 2006-04-24 10:54 pm (UTC)(link)
I could have sworn I replied to this. Hmmm - anyway, sounds like a great idea. The movers don't come until mid-May so this is a good plan.

[identity profile] veejane.livejournal.com 2006-04-24 04:51 pm (UTC)(link)
I advise against Anthony, on grounds that he will be Tony [name with many Ys] for the rest of his life and fail at anagrams. Also, possibly, be doomed to play Tony the Tiger at Halloween.

Anton, you'll spend the rest of your life telling people it's not Anthony. Remember all those morons who used to insist "Nathaniel" was actually "Daniel"? People are dumb.

Between Marcus and Mark, I advise the latter; for Eddie, I hope you are not thinking Edmund or Edwin, because those are awfully precious; for Theodore, well, I can't get The Chipmunks out of my head thinking that name. David is fine, but does not stand out particularly. I am neutral on Charlie.

Idris Elba wins!

Idris David [name with many Ys]. It could work. I want a commission for turning you onto this name, you realize.

[identity profile] casperflea.livejournal.com 2006-04-24 05:38 pm (UTC)(link)
Re: Idris David, we are not Welsh.
Re: Anton, this only works if mr. flea changes his name back to the Uber-Polish version. I totally agree on the Tony, but mr. flea is hot for it.

Your commission/prize: should we die premature, possibly fiery deaths, you get to keep the children.

[identity profile] mearagrrl.livejournal.com 2006-04-24 07:11 pm (UTC)(link)
160? Dear lord. You're like, many inches taller than me, and pregnant, and you outweigh me by like, two pounds? Oh, I am sad.

[identity profile] casperflea.livejournal.com 2006-04-24 07:24 pm (UTC)(link)
I am a skinny, skinny woman. I skew the BMI. Do not be sad. (My normal unpregnant weight is 135-140).

[identity profile] ste-noni.livejournal.com 2006-04-24 10:56 pm (UTC)(link)
flea is maybe an inch taller than me and I currently weigh 10 lbs more than her and I'm *not* 28 weeks pregnant. We can be sad together.