flea, that's definitely not just the mother-love talking - she's absolutely gorgeous. And that's on top of being adorable, not instead of it.

I hope the difficult phases with Dillo will be over soon. I'm not a parent yet, so I probably have no idea regarding what I'm talking about, but it seems to me that, as long as you're doing your best - and it definitely seems like you do (I've been reading for quite a while, even though I didn't comment) - there's nothing more that can be done by you, right? And therefore, that's probably going to be enough for Dillo, as well, I guess.

Good luck. It reads like you're doing a really good job as it is.